Monday, November 3, 2008

Guys and Sex

Hello ppl!!
Today i would like to touch on the topic of guys and sex....

Since pri sch, we had many talks regarding sex..
And what they will always mention is that the brain of a guy mainly thinks about sex and they are unable to multitask...
Whereas girls focus more on emotions, the need to be loved and is about to do many things at once...
There was once i was talking to my chem teacher..it was suppose to be consultation but i dunno why we talked about her cousin...
The story was that her cousin had several porn pic and videos in the com and he need his uncle which is my chem teacher's husband to clear cause his mum scold him or something...
Then my chem teacher's husband knew exactly which are the files which contains those...
my chem teacher then ask him like how he know, then he say ai yo, last time got see these kind of thing one mah...
My chem teacher thinks that it is a very usual and normal thing for guys to watch porn...she even say that all guys do that at least once in their life..

There was another encounter...
My friend said that every guy after sec will watch porn at least once!
Then i started to accept the fact that guys are made this way and i cannot blame them for doing all these...(the same concept as to men are made to sin and thus will confirm sin. It just depends on the extent)

There is a verse in the bible, matthew chap 5 verse 27 and 28 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery, but i say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
After i read this the other day i started to realise that in this world, there are so many guys doing this! Media like tv shows, movies or even just by observing the ppl around, i encounter several committing adultery but not knowing so...
I also started to realise that there is a need to stop this and not to take it as a natural fact...
God made adam so perfect and good whereas now. most of the men are worlds apart! what is actually going on?
I believe that it is the works of satan...he is trying to make men sin. The more the better..
I feel that since sin can be stopped and prevented from occuring when one is willing to try, i don't see any excuse as to why men cannot be stopped from committing adultery...
Matthew chap 5 verse 29" If your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."

Another thing i would like to talk about is sex...
As pastor ronald had said that sex is suppose to be a good thing, a very pure and beautiful thing that God created...
However, what do we see in the world today?
Sex is being abused and used for evil...(families are broken, quarrels, tears, sadness, anger...etc)
This good, wonderful and amazing thing that God created turns bad and used for several wrong purposes...Why?
Don't you feel sad for this world?=(

I know it is kinda weird for me to type all these, but i still want to! Because this is currently what is happening around the world as more and more ppl fall into sin, more and more ppl divorce, more and more families are broken...is it worth it, just because of a moment of folly?
Think about it.

God Bless you!

1 comment:

Grace said...

"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will."
- Romans 12:2

Moral standards are dropping, eh? It's just up to us, as Christians, to hold dear to the standards God has given us, not just what everyone says is "normal". Normalcy does not mean rightness!

Keep your blog posts coming, Nicole! They are a blessing. =]