Saturday, October 25, 2008

You've got a personality!

This is something that i have learnt and read from the notes during the P6 camp...
I want to provide encouragement to those who feel that they cannot fit in and those that transform and change themselves just to fit in in whatever circumstances...

I know that there are quite a no. of people who hide their true personality because of the fact that they are afraid that others may not accept them for who they are....
Some may even change their personality just to suit others and please them to get into a certain group of friends...

Characteristics and personality are two different things,
Characteristics affects the way we act, think, and feel.
Personality affects your entire life- decision making, leisure, and response to situations, expression of feelings and your relationship with others...

We are all different. Just take a quick look around you and you will discover that there is none like you! There is no 'right' or 'wrong' personality. God designs each of us to have different personalities. No one is an accident, even if your personality is "weird". Hence, you do not have to copy or other people's personality or even change your personality just to please ppl. God did not create ppl to please you, or you to please others. God created you to please himself!
If you feel that ppl outcast you just because you show your true personality, those are not your true friends true friends will learn to accept you being yourself.

The different personalities include being outgoing/reserved, Self-expressive/self-controlled, Cooperative/competitive..etc...Also, how you respond to different opportunities and situations...
Always rmb that everyone has a unique combination of different personality tendencies. We are each different from others -God did not use a cookie cutter to mould all of us!

So i do hope anyone of you out there can learn something from this or even use it to encourage those who are in these situations of hiding their true self..

Show case your true self!! Jia you!
BUT! must always rmb to pray!

GOD LOVES YOU ALWAYS!

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